This sermon is based on Matthew 5:20-24, the Gospel reading for the 5th Sunday after Pentecost in the Extraordinary Form of the Rite.
THE QUALITIES OF TRUE CHRISTIAN RECONCILIATION.
“Leave there thy gift before the altar, and first go to be reconciled to thy
brother, and then come and offer thy gift.” Matt. 5 : 24.
Who has given us this commandment, my beloved brethren? It is
neither Moses, nor Elias, nor any earthly law-giver or potentate who lays
down for us this doctrine ; but Jesus Christ, whom our sins have nailed to
the cross, that sovereign Judge, to whom all judgment has been given by
the Father, that Lord of lords and King of kings, who shall decide, at
last, whether we merit endless misery or perpetual happiness. It is Jesus
Christ who speaks, and he never spoke with greater authority, he never
declared his will more emphatically than in this instance, since he knew
that none but himself could oblige us to forgive and love our enemies.
When he opened his lips for his first public discourse, he gave voice to
that excellent and truly divine Sermon on the Mount, which contains the
whole summary of evangelical perfection, the law of peace and good-will
which should characterize his followers, and unite them in the golden
bonds of true fraternal charity. “You have heard that it was said to them
of old : Thou shalt not kill, and whosoever shall kill, shall be guilty of
the judgment. But I say to you, that whosoever is angry with his brother,
shall be guilty of the judgment. And whosoever shall say to his brother
Raca, shall be guilty of the council. And whosoever shall say : Thou fool,
shall be guilty of hell-fire. Therefore, if thou oiferest thy gift at the altar,
and there shalt remember that thy brother hath anything against thee ;
leave there thy gift before the altar, and first go to be reconciled to thy
brother; and then come and offer thy gift.” (Matt. 5 : 21-25.) Again he
says: “You have heard that it hath been said: Thou shalt love thy
neighbor, and hate thy enemy. But I say to you: Love your enemies:
do good to them that hate you: pray for them that persecute and calum
niate you ; that you may be the children of your Father, who is in heaven.
. . . . For if you love those that love you, what reward shall you have?
do not even the publicans the same? And if you salute your brethren
only, what do you more ? Do not, also, the heathens the same?”
(Matt 5:43-48.) The law is plain, the commandment most express; thus
speaks Jesus to his followers : "I, your Lord and your God, the ruler of
all hearts, the supreme Law-giver of the universe, having, in my infinite
love and mercy created you and redeemed you by my precious blood, I
command you: Love your enemies, forgive them, if they have offended you, if you wish to be my disciples ; for by this all men shall know that you are my disciples, if you have love one for another. If you do not love your enemies, if, on the contrary, you hate them, and seek revenge upon them, you are not my disciples. If your hearts are hard, resentful, and unforgiving, it is useless for you to approach my altar, or offer to me any gift, no matter how precious. I reject your sacrifice ; your prayer is an abomination to me; my ears are shut against it. I have no blessing, no grace for the man who hates his neighbor.
Hearken, my beloved, to the commandment of our God ! It is general, and suffers no exception whatsoever. Many, however, deceive themselves in its practice; they imagine themselves reconciled to their enemies, yet, all the while, they bear about with them the poisoned arrow of resentment which rankles in the heart, and makes it continually bleed afresh. Whence comes this, my brethren ? Ah ! that is the very question I am about to solve to-day, confining myself strictly, to the interpretation of my text. If we would be truly reconciled to our enemies, what qualities must our reconciliation possess, in order to correspond with the spirit of peace and Christian love? The answer is contained in the explicit words of Christ: “Leave there thy gift before the altar, and first go to be reconciled to thy brother ; and then come and offer thy gift” (Matt. 5 : 24.)
1. Our reconciliation will cost us some trouble : LEAVE THY GIFT,… AND GO.
2. Our reconciliation must be prompt: “FIRST GO.” And
3. Our reconciliation must be sincere and universal: “BE RECONCILED TO THY BROTHER.”
1. A reconciliation, my dear brethren, is always a painful task ; but, though it may be repugnant to flesh and blood, though it may cost a great deal of self-denial, though our pride and our self-love be bitterly opposed to it, it must be done, for Christ says: “Go!” Many may contend, in reply: “But, Father, to pardon injuries, to forgive offences, to be reconciled to one’s enemies, to love them that hate us, is very hard nay, it is an impossibility.” I do not deny, my beloved children, that the practice of Christian forgiveness is difficult, and, in fact, harder than anything else. I remember what a certain holy martyr said, when his executioners demanded of him a miracle: “I love you, my murderers, as my brothers. Do you require a greater miracle of me than this?” The pardon of injuries and offences, the love of enemies, is a virtue which, although rare among Christians, is absolutely necessary for salvation. You may repeat, again and again: “It is impossible to human nature to love those that hate us.” If it were impossible, Christ would not have commanded it; since the Council of Trent says, that God does not command impossibilities, and the Sacred Scriptures repeatedly exhort us to keep the commandments; therefore, with God s grace, we can keep them, because we
can do all things in him that strengthens us. Christ inculcated the love of enemies on every occasion, not only by his word, but, also, by his own divine example, his whole life being a continual exercise of fraternal charity. It was his love for his enemies that brought him down from heaven, and led him to endure the greatest hardships, humiliations, and sufferings. All the base treatment he received from the Jews, could not hinder him from spending three whole years among them, in continual endeavors to convert them, and procure their everlasting happiness. He healed their sick, he cleansed their lepers, he cast out their devils, and performed, in short, all kinds of miracles, during that time, for the sake of a people, the most ungrateful that ever trod the face of the earth, a people who, he foresaw, would repay all his loving bounty and benefits by putting him, in the end, to a most ignominous death. And, O my brethren, at his Last Supper, when the hour of his cruel Passion was at hand, did he not prostrate himself before Judas, the infamous traitor, and there, with the most amazing humility and meekness, wash and wipe his vile feet as lovingly and tenderly as though he were one of his best and truest friends? If we follow him, in spirit, to Mount Calvary, and behold him barbarously nailed to the Cross, we shall find him, in the very freshness of his bleeding wounds and painful agony, forgetful of himself, and, with his first words upon the cruel Tree, imploring mercy and pardon for his murderers: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” (Luke 23 : 34.)
Will you, then, say, my brethren, that it is impossible for you to love your enemies? Did Christ promise heaven to cowards? Does not the kingdom of heaven suffer violence, and do not the violent that is, the brave, bear it away? If it is painful to flesh and blood to love our enemies, why do we not do violence to flesh and blood ? Is it not the narrow way that leads to life? It is difficult to love an enemy, you say. But why? Because you have been offended? If, on the other hand, you were the offender, would you not speak otherwise? Would you not praise the wisdom of the Law-giver who has commanded the pardon of injuries? You still persist in saying: “It is hard; nature revolts against it.” That is very true; corrupt nature is opposed to it; but, blessed be God ! his grace can do what nature cannot; his grace can achieve the noblest of ail victories. “Love,” says A Kempis, “performs and effects many things, where he that loves not, faints, and lies down.” (Lib. 3 : cap. 5.) The Lord has promised us his help; the Lord will grant it; he commands no impossibility. After this, will you again say, my dear Christians, that it is too hard nay, that it is impossible to pardon injuries? Say, rather, that it is too hard nay, that it is impossible to obtain the pardon of your sins from God. For, under such circumstances, when you recite the Lord’s Prayer, you cry out, virtually, to God instead of: “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive them that trespass against us.” “O Lord, do not forgive me my sins, for I can never bring myself to forgive those who sin against me!”
We must reconcile ourselves to our brethren before offering our gifts at
the altar, not only interiorly, but, also, exteriorly, for our Blessed Lord
says: “Leave there thy gift before the altar, and first go to be reconciled
to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift. Go, leave the sanctuary,
seek thy brother, give him the kiss of peace, before you come to my ban
quet; let your tongue pronounce the words of reconciliation, before it
becomes the resting-place of my Body, before it imbrues itself with my
precious Blood.”
Now, if God required only the forgiveness of the heart that is, interior
forgiveness, you might forgive your enemy without actually seeking his presence. But, no, says the Lord, that is not enough ; your enemy must know
that you have forgiven him that you are reconciled to him ; you must, therefore, first go to him, and give him external tokens of your friendship.
On this account, as I have said, my dear brethren, a reconciliation, between enemies, is always a difficult and painful piece of work.
2. Our reconciliation must be prompt. If you be already at the altar, and about to lay your gift upon it, and there remember that your brother has anything against you, what does the Lord say you are to do? “First go to be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.” Obedience is better than sacrifice; obedience to the command of God is of more worth to him than any other gift you could offer. The first and most acceptable sacrifice, in the eyes of God, is a reconciliation with your enemy, without which you cannot hope for any blessing or grace. If we should have all faith, so that we could move mountains, if we should distribute all our goods to feed the poor, and if we should chastise our bodies seven times a day, and deliver them to be burned, if our virtues should be a continual source of edification to our neighbors, and if, as missionaries to the ends of the earth, we should have made known the name of God to all mankind, and converted millions of souls, if, with all this, we deliberately entertain hatred in our own hearts against any one of our fellowmen, and refuse to be reconciled to him, the whole of our good works, our prayers, fasts, and alms-deeds, will be rejected by God, and avail us naught to salvation. He exclaims to us, as it were, from his throne upon our altars: “First go to be reconciled, go without delay, make peace with your brother, and then come and offer thy gift. And, unless you do so at once, the prayer out of your mouth, the gift out of your hand, will not please me, and you cannot hope, O sinner ! for mercy or pardon from me!”
If any of you, my brethren, have, at present, the misfortune to live in enmity with one of your fellow-men, the affair of reconciliation must be your first, and most important, business. The sun must not go down upon your anger. But, alas! what do people generally say when they have been offended? “I will forgive, but not at present; I cannot do it just now; the offence is too great, the wound too recent, the heart still bleeds under the blow!” Ah! who can hear such language without shuddering! How will it be possible to forgive, after time has deepened and aggravated the wound? You will consent to live on in the displeasure of God, and thus wilfully expose yourself to the danger of being eternally lost? Who has assured you that the time which you propose to yourself will ever be granted to you? “He who has promised pardon to the penitent, has not promised a to-morrow to the sinner,” says the great St. Augustine. What ifyou should be suddenly snatched away? If death should cut short the thread of your life before the work of reconciliation is accomplished, what would be the result? You will forgive after a while? Why not now? Your heart becomes harder, the wound deeper, and the reconciliation more difficult, every day. Or will you say, it is good to make my enemy feel his fault, before I forgive him ? Does God deal with you in this manner? He forgives you as soon as you prostrate yourself before him, and
ask his pardon; and yet, you, a poor worm of the earth, postpone reconciliation from day to day, in order to make your enemy sensible of his
fault! God forgives you innumerable sins of malice, and you refuse to pardon an offence from your brother, arising very often from frailty or thoughtlessness, rather, than from any deliberate intention to offend. Oh,
enter into yourself, poor, deluded sinner, I implore you, that you may discover the dangers and risks to which your eternal salvation is exposed, that you may see clearly the gross inconsistency and injustice of your conduct! Make haste to be reconciled to your brother.
3. Our reconciliation must be sincere and universal.
(a). Sincere, without any mental reservation; without dissembling; it must be manifested, not by words alone, but, also, by exterior tokens and signs. We must give our offending brother the kiss of peace, but, look well to it, dear Christians, that it be not the kiss of Judas. We must wish him no evil, but, on the contrary, render to him good for evil. This is the kind of reconciliation our Lord requires of us, when he says: “First go to be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.” Does he not thereby give us to understand that our heart must be free from every kind of dissembling, and must bear testimony to itself that Christian love and peace are once more restored between us and our brother, and that he no longer cherishes any grudge or resentment against us; that we love each other, in fine, as if nothing had ever happened to disturb the harmony of our friendship. Now, let us look at the conduct of the generality of Christians, and see how they act in this matter. They will tell you, perhaps, that they are reconciled to their enemies, that they have pardoned all the injuries received, but if such a one has forgiven his brother from his heart, why does he experience the keenest pain when he hears him praised? Why does he expose his faults? Why rejoice when a misfortune or evil befalls him? Why, (I ask that false friend,) why do you
complain of your former enemy, on the slightest pretext, and make little of
him in your circle of acquaintances, though you declare, at the same time,
that you have forgiven him? Can we call such conduct as this, sincere
forgiveness ? You say, I will forgive him the injury he has done me, but I cannot forget it. This, also, is not sincere forgiveness. You say, I forgive, yet the gall of hatred and aversion still remains in your heart, and you become
angry as soon as you see him; what sort of forgiveness is this? You say, we are friends again, I have sworn him eternalfriendship, ah! rather say, eternal hatred. Your dark scowl, your lowering countenance, your ill-concealed aversion and repugnance to his society, all are sufficient to convince the most casual observer that you are not sincerely reconciled to your enemy, that the fire is still lurking under the ashes, ready to flash forth in full blaze upon the first occasion.
(b). Lastly, my dear brethren, our reconciliation must be universal; that is to say, we must become reconciled to every one who has offended us, no matter who he may be; and, for this reason, Jesus calls such a one, our brother. “If thou offerest thy gift at the altar, and there shalt remember that thy brother hath anything against thee, leave there thy gift before the altar, and first go to be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.” As if our blessed Lord would say: “If it is hard to flesh and blood to forgive one’s enemy, do not regard your offender as art enemy, but as your brother; he, like you, is a child of your heavenly Father, a disciple of mine, redeemed (as you were) by my own most precious Blood, and destined (as you are) to inherit the same divine, everlasting Kingdom, in short, he is your brother. Need I say more, in order to move you to mercy and forgiveness? Have you living hearts of flesh, or hearts of senseless stone? Joseph, the son of Jacob, hearing, in his Egyptian exile, the mere mention of the name of brother, bursts into tears, and bids the trembling brothers, who had so deeply wronged him in the past, arise from their knees. Kissing them fondly, he says, in kindest tones: “Fear not. I shall think no more of the injury you have done
me. You are my brothers, that is enough; all shall be forgiven and for
gotten in that one sweet name!”
O my dear Christians, considering this beautiful example of fraternal charity, will you not now understand more clearly the significance of those words of Christ: “First go to be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift”? That you may the better comprehend the importance of this commandment, and how strictly the Church, at all times, has obliged her children to its performance, I will remind you of the practice of the primitive Christians. In the early ages of the Church, when the congregation was assembled at the holy Sacrifice of the Mass, when the divine Lamb had been offered to the Eternal Father, and the banquet of the holy Communion was about to be given to the faithful, a Deacon addressed the assembly, crying in a loud voice: “Whosoever has anything against his brother any ill feeling, anger, or hatred let him first go to be reconciled, before he approaches the holy Table. No angry, revengeful man can be permitted to taste the Supper in which the God of peace, love, and meekness gives himself to be our food!” After this, my beloved brethren, will you continue to entertain hatred in your hearts against any of your neighbors? Will you put off your reconciliation with him from day to day ? Will you not heed the Voice issuing from this sacred Tabernacle and saying to each one of you: “First go, to be
reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer the gift of thy heart”?
Remember the words: “He that hateth his brother is a murderer,” and judgment without mercy upon him who showeth no mercy. Hence, I say to
you with St. Paul: “Put ye on, therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, the bowels of mercy, benignity, humility, modesty, patience: bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if any have a complaint against another: even as the Lord hath forgiven you, so do you also. But, above all things, have charity, which is the bond of perfection.” (Col. 3 : 12-14.) “For the rest, brethren, rejoice; be perfect; take exhortation; be of one mind; have peace: and the God of peace and of love will be with you.” (2 Cor. 13 : n.) Amen.